It's kind of funny how from time to time (I wanted to say 'in every fandom' but it's not true in different ways) I find myself a Person, someone close, who shares a lot of my views, in whom I sometimes just confide, but it's mostly about fandom with them. In a good way; it's the person I share the most about it. Like, my creative stuff - they may beta-read or just read things I've never shown to anyone. There's been… two people like this in Star Trek for me. A little bit like this in House, but not quite. Don't think there's others. Oh, wait, it appeals to How I Met Your Mother, too. In a way, it does appeal to Kvartet. Obviously not creative stu-- oh, no, it does work too! Meaning my photos here, not text. So yeah. A lot of examples. (Glee too, of course.)

Somehow, though, it doesn't really work once the fandom is gone. Sometimes a person can lose their likeliness (and you didn't see it before at all). Sometimes you just lose touch. Sometimes you just stop talking. :/ It actually works way better with people who you aren't that close with. It's funny. And sad.
I lost contact with both ST people. First one may still be around, just quiet/not writing in diary. I could probably text her and she would get it. We didn't talk since a year ago, though. The other… I couldn't even contact her through SMS I'm actually worried.

J, i couldn't bear to lose all contact with you. don't disappear. :/

PS. некоторые из них даже похожи между собой. но ТИМы не совпадают, это точно, по крайней мере.